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Overcoming Betrayal: 

Find Trust, Love, and Happiness on Your Terms with a Betrayal Recovery Specialist

Are you feeling overwhelmed by the emotions brought on by betrayal?
Despite the support of loved ones, it can feel like there's no one to turn to help you move past the hurt, regain trust, and find love and happiness on your terms.


But you're not alone. I understand the pain and trauma of betrayal, having faced it myself,

 and found my purpose in helping others heal and transform.


With over 20 years of experience as a coach, mentor, and advisor, I am here to guide you through your journey to healing and growth. Whether you're struggling with the aftermath of infidelity, 

trying to rebuild trust, or seeking to understand and overcome the emotional fallout of betrayal, 

I am here to help.


You are taking an important step by seeking support, and I am dedicated to providing a safe, non-judgmental space for you to process your feelings, gain clarity, and start your healing journey. 

My approach is based on empathy, understanding, and compassion, and I will work with you 

to create a personalized plan tailored to your unique needs and goals.


Together, we will build your mental fitness and resilience, so you can face the challenges of betrayal with confidence and strength. Using research-tested tools, we will help you heal, so you can love and trust again.

Take the first step towards healing and transformation. Reach out and schedule a session today. I am honored to be a part of your journey toward a brighter future.

Thank you for visiting and I look forward to connecting with you soon.

Betrayal can be a painful experience, but you don't have to go through it alone.




Empowering Books for Healing and Recovery: Discover Vanessa Cardenas' Insights as the Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal:

How to Talk to Your Kids, Parents, In-Laws, Friends, and Others

Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal
Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal



Dealing with the Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal

How to Talk to Your Kids, Parents, In-Laws, Friends, and Others

Over 500 Ways to Talk to a New Man After Betrayal

Great conversation starters!

Over 500 Ways to Talk to a New Man After Betrayal
Got Betrayed?  Don't know what to do?  You are not alone!  Immediate Action Steps  Quick Guide




Got Betrayed?

Don't know what to do?

You are not alone!

Immediate Action Steps

Quick Guide

What you need to know now after betrayal Vanessa Cardenas

Vanessa Cardenas, Betrayal Recovery Specialist

Your Trusted Guide for Betrayal & Transformation: Personalized Healing Resources & Confidential Support

Unraveling the Aftermath of Betrayal: A Comprehensive Free Quick Course Offering Immediate Answers and Actionable Steps

Unravel the complexities of betrayal with my FREE Quick Course, designed to provide immediate answers to your most pressing questions in the aftermath of betrayal discovery. Explore topics such as "What Just Happened?" and "Is This Betrayal?" to gain clarity and understanding.

Are you questioning "Why Me?" or wondering "What Now?" We provide three immediate action steps to guide you on the path toward healing and recovery.

As a bonus, this course unveils the #1 answer to most questions about betrayal, delves into the reasons betrayal hurts so much, and offers three effective ways to soothe yourself during this challenging time.

Join me in this journey of understanding betrayal, one question at a time. This quick course is your starting point to navigating the stormy seas of betrayal and emerging stronger and more resilient on the other side.

What a client recently said about Vanessa Cardenas as their Betrayal Recovery Specialist

Vanessa is truly amazing. Her approach brought me clarity and direction. I came to her utterly lost, broken, confused, and deeply conflicted as to whether to stay in my marriage.

Without judgment, she brought me to clarity so I could see the direction I wanted to take. She held me accountable in the crafted plan we developed to reach my highest dreams, not only in my marriage but in all aspects of my life.

In six short months, my whole world completely transformed. Vanessa gave me the confidence and encouragement to be the best version of myself.

I remain forever grateful.

Valerie M.

New York

Rebuilding Trust and Love After Betrayal: Reclaiming Safety and Happiness in Your Life

Vanessa  Cardenas

Unveiling My Qualifications as Your Trusted Betrayal Recovery Specialist:
Why I Am the Right Guide for Your Healing Journey​

My experience as a trusted advisor, coach, and mentor spans over 20 years as an experienced C-Suite Executive, Mentor, and Leader in a therapy healthcare business. Having graduated from Baruch College with an Industrial and Organizational Psychology degree, I have supported hundreds of team members to achieve outstanding results in their careers and personal lives.


Years ago, a personal experience brought me face to face with betrayal after 2 decades of marriage.  Completely blindsided, I dove headfirst into all the research to help me heal from betrayal.


Not only was I determined to heal, but I quickly realized that this journey was one not to embark on alone.


I sought out others to help me on my inner circle of trusted advisors

with my new motto singing in my head each day as I recovered from betrayal...

"Do it for yourself, not by yourself."


After years of independent study and in-depth self-education, I am now on the other side of betrayal with great wisdom, greater awareness, ever-growing expertise, and several related certifications.


I am better for experiencing this life-changing event; it was the necessary shove I needed to change my personal mission and purpose.


Now, I help others reclaim themselves by providing a safe haven to come to terms with the impact of life-changing events.


By combining my education, independent studies, and life experiences with my Evercoach certification recognized by the International Coaching Federation (ICF), I help others heal from betrayal.


With warmth, intuition, and insight, I bring wisdom and compassion to the healing process,

enabling my clients to experience wholeness, well-being, and freedom never thought possible,

one powerful chat at a time.


Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Betrayal Recovery Specialist

Your Trusted Guide for Betrayal & Transformation: Personalized Healing Resources & Confidential Support

Navigating Loneliness:

Rebuilding Trust and Finding Connection After Betrayal


Are you...feeling lost or filled with so many emotions that you don't know which way is up? 

Even though you are surrounded by family, friends, and colleagues, there is trulyno one to talk to about the betrayal.


I have some comforting news for you…You are not alone

and I can help you, especially when

your world was shattered in an instant, or it feels out of control.


You see, I have been where you are; I was everything to everyone too. 


Is your superhero cape faded and shredded, like mine was?

The expectations. The pressures. A world telling you who you should be. 

Then, in my case, the words... "I've met someone".  


Betrayal smacked me right in the face, kicked me down a flight of stairs, and ripped my heart out. That was years ago, and I am now on the other side of betrayal, healed. I was able to rebuild trust and find connections after being turtled for too long .


You are doing the most important thing right at this moment…

looking for much-needed support.


 I can help you navigate through the feelings of 

  • rage and sadness

  • loneliness, 

  • confusion, 

  • indecision, 

  • self-doubt, 

  • uncertainty, and 

  • fear of the future  

Here I am, right here, for you

When we get caught up in the constant state of doing, we find ourselves on the merry-go-round of life. This constant state of motion creates a never-ending cycle of flux and doesn’t allow any opportunity to do much more than react to what shows up.  

Many women ignore or push down all their feelings in attempts to put the betrayal behind them as quickly as possible. However, the only way out of all the hurt, to truly heal, is to navigate through all the feelings with someone who has been through it and has healed.

I help you build your mental fitness muscles to face all the challenges that betrayal throws your way.

I offer a non-judgmental atmosphere where you are free to share your story and simply be you. I understand your private struggles, can validate how you are feeling, and can provide you with the space to achieve clarity about your life so that you gain emotional and mental strength while finding connection.


Step out of the hurt of your history into the possibility of the present. 


Using a wide range of research-tested tools, we build your mental fitness so you can get unstuck, navigate transitions, tap into your unrealized potential, and achieve true healing.


You will feel encouraged and empowered to truly live your best life.

You will heal.

You will trust again...and love again.


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