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Beyond Betrayal Blogs
How to Heal from Intimate Partner Betrayal

An ongoing series of informational entries

The Emotional Impact of Betrayal on Discovery Day

The Emotional Impact of Betrayal on Discovery Day

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Is there a Hallmark card for​ Discovery Day?

Is he Cheating on Me? - 4 Signs

Is he Cheating on Me? - 4 Signs

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Trusted Advisor Vanessa Cardenas discusses he 4 signs of cheating in a relationship

The Adult Industry's Unintended Consequence: The Growing Connection Between Excessive Porn Use, Self-Gratification, and the Demand for Erectile Dysfunction Meds

The Adult Industry's Unintended Consequence:
The Growing Connection Between Excessive Porn Use, Self-Gratification, and the Demand for Erectile Dysfunction Meds

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Growing concern that Porn Use and Masturbation leads to sexual dysfunction 

Signs of a Toxic Relationship

Signs of a Toxic Relationship

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

The cycle of a toxic relationship - know the signs before you get in to deep...

Surviving Infidelity:  5 Essential Steps

Surviving Infidelity:  5 Essential Steps

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

What you need to do when faced with betrayal - 5 steps

The Best Kept Secret to Healing from Betrayal: Strategies for Recovery

The Best Kept Secret to Healing from Betrayal: Strategies for Recovery

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

What You Need to Know 

Heal from Betrayal:  Begging for Forgiveness

Heal from Betrayal:  Begging for Forgiveness

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

A symbol of strength and courage

A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime

A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

What Happens When​ Betrayal Crashes the Relationship​

How to Reclaim Yourself After Betrayal

How to Reclaim Yourself After Betrayal

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Self image shattered when betrayal comes into focus

Gaslighting and Trickle Truths: Unraveling Deception in Betrayal

Gaslighting and Trickle Truths: Unraveling Deception in Betrayal

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Trickle-truth - drip, drip, drip...3 key types and how to encourage the truth

When Betrayal Happens ~ Please FIX Me!

When Betrayal Happens ~
Please FIX Me!

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Discovery of Betrayal - One Woman's Plea

Healing the Mother Wound and Father Wound: Understanding Emotional Needs in Relationships

Healing the Mother Wound and Father Wound:
Understanding Emotional Needs in Relationships

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

What's can be done to heal?

How Long Does It Take To Heal From Betrayal

How Long Does It Take To Heal From Betrayal

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

What's that magic formula?

Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy After Betrayal: Focusing on a Woman's Erogenous Zones

Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy After Betrayal:
Focusing on a Woman's Erogenous Zones

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

9 more zones besides the obvious to share with your partner

How to Prevent Infidelity: Perspective-Taking Strategy

How to Prevent Infidelity: Perspective-Taking Strategy

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

How to avoid cheating - change the perspective.

Dealing With The Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal

What To Do When Your World Falls Apart
 

Dealing With The Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal
  Got Betrayed? Don 't Know What To Do? You Are Not Alone!  Immediate Action Steps Quick Guide


Got Betrayed?

Don 't Know What To Do?

You Are Not Alone!

 Immediate Action Steps

Quick Guide

Once Upon a Time...My World Was Turned Upside Down

Once Upon a Time...My World Was Turned Upside Down

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

A roller coaster ride of emotions...Discovery Day

Can You Heal from Betrayal and Find Your Happily Ever After?

Can You Heal from Betrayal and Find Your Happily Ever After?

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Getting Real About Ma​rriage After Betr​ayal

How to Heal from Betrayal Using Mental Fitness

How to Heal from Betrayal Using Mental Fitness

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Your mind becomes your worst enemy when you discover betrayal

What's a secret to healing from betrayal?

What's a secret to healing from betrayal?

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation 2022

Really?  That's how to heal from betrayal? 

How to Heal Betrayal - Hug a Cactus

How to Heal Betrayal - Hug a Cactus

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Trusted Advisor Vanessa Cardenas discusses the concept of "hugging the cactus" for those seeking forgiveness after betraying their partners. This approach requires vulnerability, patience, and a commitment to repair the damage done.

Finding the Silver Lining in Betrayal: Lessons Learned

Finding the Silver Lining in Betrayal: Lessons Learned

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

How can there possibly be any good that comes out of betrayal?

Dealing With The Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal

What To Do When Your World Falls Apart
 

Dealing With The Devastation of Your Partner's Betrayal
  Got Betrayed? Don 't Know What To Do? You Are Not Alone!  Immediate Action Steps Quick Guide


Got Betrayed?

Don 't Know What To Do?

You Are Not Alone!

 Immediate Action Steps

Quick Guide




How betrayal feels From Tragedy to Victory: My Journey to Heal from Betrayal

How betrayal feels
From Tragedy to Victory: My Journey to Heal from Betrayal

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

Read my story of overcoming betrayal and transforming tragedy into victory. Learn how to deal with the devastation of your partner's betrayal and come out stronger than ever.

    What's The Difference Between A Trusted Advisor and  An Expert?



What's The Difference Between A Trusted Advisor and 

An Expert?

by Vanessa Cardenas, Trusted Advisor for Betrayal & Transformation

The question I am asked most often when I introduce myself

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